Today is Dismal (updated)

"RickyD" (RickyD)
12/02/2013 at 18:15 • Filed to: Save me Oppo

Oppo, today has been absolutely awful. I had recently started dating again and just got friend zoned by a woman who is beautiful and has an amazing SL65, another told me she had a great amazing date last night with another and would rather pursue him(she had a civic so I'm not bummed out on that as much.). This news was delivered over text with no warning whatsoever. I looked at pictures of Jags and even watched Chris Harris' race at Goodwood, but nothing seems to help. So here I am listening to Allman Brothers trying to find a way to get through the day.

Excuse the time stamp, that was in my old files and reminded me of how i felt.

Update: Mission accomplished with a good IPA and Opponauts that care. Tonight is much better.

DISCUSSION (28)

Nick, Drives a Cobalt LT > RickyD
12/02/2013 at 18:18

I'm sorry you were friendzoned bro

It sucks, I was friendzoned by a few girls, the worst one was a girl that I used to fool around with haha.

Its all good though, soon you may find "the one" and believe me that is the best thing in the world.

Keep your chin up

Kinja'd!!!

Have a new jag.

RickyD > Nick, Drives a Cobalt LT
12/02/2013 at 18:22

The one who friend zoned me was my masseuse and also a rather beautiful "dancer" in a more exotic field. I was just feeling so high on myself all month for everything to cascade downward instantaneously.

Nick, Drives a Cobalt LT > RickyD
12/02/2013 at 18:23

I know those feels man.

It sucks, I've been through the same sort of situation, everything was great and then a huge thing changed, and fucked it all up.

Those moments are there for good reason, only makes you stronger.

Just gotta keep moving forward with life, don't dwell on what was, look to what can be.

SaabLife, because Gripen > RickyD
12/02/2013 at 18:25

Kinja'd!!!

No worries, dude. There's quite a few people of the female persuasion on this Earth and if this one is willing to friendzone you, then there are a million out there to take her place.

Fishes in the sea....I dunno...some saying....have a sea of F40.

TheBloody, Oppositelock lives on in our shitposts. > RickyD
12/02/2013 at 18:25

Kinja'd!!!

I'm kidding, don't do that.

Sucks, but it happens. Woman can be fickle so don't sweat it and move on. Just think of it as being free to explore new worlds. I haven't met a man who has regretted dating too many women, well at least ones without an STD (don't be a fool, wrap your tool. Write that down).

RickyD > TheBloody, Oppositelock lives on in our shitposts.
12/02/2013 at 18:31

Travelers get weary too sometimes.

RickyD > Nick, Drives a Cobalt LT
12/02/2013 at 18:33

I just didn't expect it.

TheBloody, Oppositelock lives on in our shitposts. > RickyD
12/02/2013 at 18:36

Ah, but it's not only the destination. It's also the journey, every woman is a new experience, a new opportunity so enjoy it because you will miss it when you finally find the one. Not that it's a bad thing finding the one, just that it's something you'll miss the journey.

RickyD > TheBloody, Oppositelock lives on in our shitposts.
12/02/2013 at 18:39

I have had this superhuman confidence for the past few months, this reality thing is pissing me off I suppose.

Nibby > RickyD
12/02/2013 at 18:46

We're here to make you laugh and bring you happiness.

BlazinAce - Doctor of Internal Combustion > RickyD
12/02/2013 at 18:59

Get drunk man, nao. really , really durnk.,

RickyD > BlazinAce - Doctor of Internal Combustion
12/02/2013 at 19:02

Can't leave work until 6. Stop by Bev Mo on the way home, get drunk... Might be a real plan you have there.

BlazinAce - Doctor of Internal Combustion > RickyD
12/02/2013 at 19:03

Do it, it's worth it, I'm already bidding on radnom tuff on eBay.

Buckner > RickyD
12/02/2013 at 19:05

Best advice I ever got:

Me: Just broke up with my girl.

Duder: Well, go find a better one.

RickyD > Buckner
12/02/2013 at 19:11

Sound advice. I haven't felt this shitty since I sold my Boxster. It's been 3 years and I haven't replaced it with anything worthwhile... I'm fucked.

Buckner > RickyD
12/02/2013 at 19:13

Sounds to me you need a 928 or a 944, something to keep you working and cursing into the wee hours......perpetually. Yikes!

Kick the can, ladies will come. The key is to ENJOY kicking the can.

RickyD > Buckner
12/02/2013 at 19:22

I tried the 944 battle when I was younger, it ended poorly. I was thinking of finally breaking down and buying my dream Jaguar XKR or getting an older Saab, but I lost my travel buddy today too.

Bandit > RickyD
12/02/2013 at 20:38

I know the feel, I have a nice house in the friendzone. You can live in the guest cottage if you like.

offroadkarter > RickyD
12/02/2013 at 20:44

Kinja'd!!!

Just remember, women are expensive creatures, which is why I'm not following any of my friends examples by jumping on some shit internet dating site and finding the first desperate piece of fat ass that'll be down to PIIHB. (I don't suggest you take this route either). I have no problem waiting for someone of quality.

I met a girl in one of my classes who used to work for a porsche/audi dealer delivering anything from audi RS's to 911 GT3's to clients on a regular basis. She also likes anything from european cars to old school muscle cars, especially old pontiacs. We had a ton of stuff in common, to a point where it was almost scary. (Coincidentally we even have the same ringtones on our phones). Even though I had a good feeling what was coming, I shot the "ey bby u single?" question. I felt like total crap when I found out she had a boyfriend already.

Always more out there, but for now, laugh maniacally as you thumb through a stack of singles and reflect on how much monetary wealth you currently possess. Hookers and blow might help also.

RickyD > Bandit
12/02/2013 at 23:09

I will occupy the cottage and fill it with blackjack and hookers.

RickyD > offroadkarter
12/02/2013 at 23:10

I would normally go to the strip club, but where do you go when the stripper is the one that leaves you lol?

offroadkarter > RickyD
12/03/2013 at 00:13

Kinja'd!!!